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PEAK-EXPERIENCE
ORGASM:
HOW TO GET TO PARADISE
There
is nothing that has to be done in order to reach a peak-experience
orgasm. The only difficulty is that you need to do exactly nothing.
Generally when you make love you are tense, often your facial expression
is even serious, as if you are doing something dangerous.
Abandon this worried attitude. If you want to enjoy the whole pleasure
that you are entitled to, relax body and soul. The man should not
attempt to maintain his erection in any way, he should not contract
the pelvic muscles.
Instead the woman, if she wants to, can move her pussy from inside.
You can even remain still, but if you want to move, you should do
it very slowly. Fill up your lungs and breathe all the way out.
Oxygen has a wonderful effect on the body... As Lowen, a bioenergetic
researcher, says:
"Everybody knows that if you don't breathe,
you're dead. Few know that the more you breathe, the more you're
alive".
Oxygen is fantastic because it has an intoxicating effect like alcohol,
but no side effects. Sometimes when you breathe deeply, your head
even spins, just as if you were drunk. But don't worry, relax, and
everything will be all right.
Air can't harm you. It's impossible to get indigestion from too
much air. The more you breathe it, the better it is. If then by
breathing you don't tense up your stomach muscles, but let your
innards move in suspension by the movement of breathing, you will
help your pelvic muscles relax. The blood will circulate better
by oxygenating your pleasure receptors, which will increase in sensitivity.
In fact, it would be worth the effort to try Tantric sex even if
it were necessary to make love naked while cycling on Milan's bypass.
Seeing that there's nothing so difficult to do, why not try? Basically,
it's about changing attitude. You don't do Tantric sex. You need
to let it happen by itself. That's the difficult part. We're too
used to doing everything for a purpose, anxiously waiting for a
result, spying on our pleasure without stopping our brain to control
and judge everything. Obviously, instead of listening to simple
sensations, the scent, the warmth, the softness of the skin, your
lover's features, you are there spying the pleasures of your bellybutton
waiting for a miracle. Nothing will happen because your longing
and your anxiety keeps your mind under stress and prevents your
unconscious to listen to your lover's vibrations and to tune in.
It's not something that you can do if you're clever, if you have
the will power, or if you try your best. It's like laughing or dancing,
you have to let it happen.
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