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HOW
IT'S DONE
ENJOYING
YOURSELF LIKE MAD
We
won't list here all the possible ways of having sex because it could
be a repetitive and boring description. I would however like to
stress that penetration is only one of the possible options and
it's not necessary the most enjoyable.
Getting physically close in all possible ways can also be very delectable.
Knees, shoulders, back, and ankles, you could play "possessing"
an underarm or the bend of a knee. Girls can enjoy themselves sitting
astride their boyfriend's back. The lower back and the upper buttocks
that precede the coccyx perfectly match the female pubic anatomy.
But even the instep or the knee can offer a suitable surface. Indulge
your fancy. And don't forget that our ancestors had prehensile feet.
Whatever you choose, remember to always act gently. They are delicate
areas. Using creams or oils or shampoo can be a good idea. Lubricating
is often indispensable if you want to give pleasurable sensations.
But in these games, as altogether in sex, the attention towards
the other and the willingness to say what you don't like without
inhibition is first and foremost indispensable.
If this effort to communicate isn't made (which among other things
is enjoyable), the quality of sex and the pleasure that you get
from it won't improve.
Advice, in short, cannot be communicated with a book. You have to
ask the person involved directly, because each time, each person,
is different. Providing a general idea can however be useful. It
is very pleasurable both for a man and for a woman to be touched
"there" always in different ways, alternating very light
and localized caresses on the more sensitive areas with fuller and
more involved touching.
Caressing or kissing even the peripheral spots of the sexual areas
is very pleasurable. As is very pleasurable the alternation of stroking,
licking, sucking, scratching, pressure, puffs, gentle brushing,
very light pinching, swashing, and tickling with hairs and with
the hair on your head. Anything you think up is fine. If you want
to stick to regular things, remember to kiss a certain part while
you stroke another. You can do it by kissing and stroking at the
same rhythm, or at alternate rhythms, syncopated rhythms, and parallel
offsetting rhythms. At different speeds.
The important thing however, I repeat, is that you should try to
understand what is more pleasurable. When you then discover that
your partner likes something in particular, don't stop there. Making
love always in the same way loses appeal and becomes tiresome. Only
the continuous search of the infinite possibilities of getting physically
close, kissing, and caressing each other can give you a pleasure
that is always new and always great. The sensations of pleasure
are like music. The more you listen to it, the more you take the
time to enjoy it and the more your capacity to "listen to it"
grows.
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