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HOW
IT'S DONE
FRIGIDITY
How
to cure it in an enjoyable way!!!
Well,
it may happen that you don't like making love. It's something that
happens to both men and women.
It can depend on the man in question, on the situation, on the place,
on the day on whether or not you are in a hurry. If you don't always
come, it's not serious. Keep trying. Choose your men with care.
Do it only when you have time available and a nice quiet place to
do it.
The situation is a little more complex if you never come at all.
First, you need to see if you never come or if you just don't come
with men. That is: if you come with women, then it simply means
that you don't like men. Resign yourself to it. It was never the
doctor's order for you to love penises. If you are really frigid,
then you need to see if you are interested in sex. You can live
quite well without screwing like mandrills.
If instead you really like experiencing pleasure, the problem should
be confronted methodically, step by step.
First, you should stop having sex just for the sake of it. Your
problem lies in desire. Without desire you can't enjoy yourself,
therefore you have to cultivate desire.
Do always and only the things that you feel like doing and stop
doing them the very instant you stop desiring them. Put orgasms
aside for a little while because it is a little complicated. Pleasure
is easier to feel. Devote yourself to pleasant things: eating an
ice-cream, dancing, having a bath, massaging yourself, having a
walk, breathing, relaxing, doing nothing, listening to music.
To experience pleasure is like everything else, the more you do
it, the better you do it. Begin to experience pleasure on your own,
before looking for other people. For example, scrub your back with
a brush or with one of those back-scratchers of rough fibre when
you have a bath. Or, after you have dried yourself, massage yourself
with a gush of hot air from your hair dryer all over your body.
Go to an amusement park, sleep with a hot water bottle, have hydromassages.
During this first stage you should also reflect on the fact that
to experience pleasure is right and it is your right. If you think
that sex is dirty or ugly you have to ask yourself why and how you
have come to get these ideas.
Pleasure governs this planet. Through pleasure, you choose food,
you procreate, you sleep. I don't know if the world was created
by God, by chance, or by the force of nature. Certainly, the universe
uses pleasure to show all its creatures what they must do. Therefore
to love each other is beautiful and sacred. You should be convinced
of this because if while you are making love you are thinking of
doing something horrible, you certainly won't be well-inclined towards
pleasure.
When you feel you are ready you can begin with a simple experiment.
Woody Allen said: "I'm good at making love because I have practised
a lot on my own". Devote yourself to your vagina.
Don't whack it anyhow. Gently stroke the area around the pussy,
then millimetre by millimetre, the large and small lips, and then
the clitoris. Do it with your fingertip. Try everything that gives
you pleasure. Lastly, devote yourself to exploring inside your vagina.
It's not important to reach an orgasm. The important thing is that
you like it. Relax and try again. When you feel like it, try it
with men. But no penetration. Only games. What do you like? A massage?
To be washed? To be followed in the street? To eat out? To be touched?
To be enjoyed? You decide. Then look for a man willing to serve
you.
Perhaps it will seem difficult for you to find a man willing to
do what you want. It's not, though. You should be aware that your
sexual power is enormous. Find a man that you like and tell him
frankly what you want from him, what he should do and how.
In return two strokes will be enough to make him come. Men are easy
to satisfy and love "strange" situations. If the desire
that a man feels for you bothers you, try with a homosexual. They
are very sensitive, generally well inclined to experimenting and
have a flair for drama. Begin with innocent games that don't involve
contact with the genitals. You should think of it as a search into
your imagination.
I don't know... have a beauty mask done, a manicure, adelicious
meal, have yourself covered with cream, oil, metal, or have yourself
spied on when you undress. Good humor and laughter are essential
in sex. Or else you risk getting stuck on sad little games that
don't give you any joy, such as getting beaten or humiliated or
some such thing.
Search for the pleasure of the skin, of permissiveness, of tenderness,
of complicity, of intimacy, of contact with others. Sexual pleasure
isn't quantitative: it's the quality that counts. It's not that
doing it with three men hanging from a chandelier will give you
more pleasure than with just using a finger.
Often in the anxiety of feeling pleasure, you do anything; you overindulge
in sex without paying real attention to what you intimately desire.
This is an error that leads to a useless, unproductive paroxysm.
Which doesn't mean that it isn't all right to do it with three men
but that you must really like everything that you do. Don't worry.
The world is full of men who only want to please and obey you! Males
love to be commanded.
Only after a while, when you really desire it, can you begin to
have true sex. Begin with the hands. If the hands are too much for
you, you can rub yourself against his knee or have yourself massaged
with his elbow or with his head or you can rub yourself against
his neck while he is on all fours, or rub yourself with his nose
provided that he doesn't lick you.
If then you don't feel like masturbating him with your hands, you
can do it with your feet, or allow him to rub his member against
your back. You can also make him come using a silk stocking which
you stretch and with which you stroke his penis, or a jet of hot
water or a soft brush. Whatever stranger you meet in the elevator
will allow you to masturbate him by using a little soap with a hole
and a little bit of water. Free your imagination. Only at the very
end should you try putting it in your pussy.
A good way is to do it very calmly. Let the man lie down on his
back, get on top and begin by rubbing his doorknocker against your
clitoris wet with saliva.
Proceed like this until you are wet.
Then insert it in your soft opening.
Now you should begin doing something you have been practicing on
your own for moving the muscles of your pussy.
Your vagina is a miracle of genetic engineering.
You can move it at your pleasure: squeeze, extend, relax, advance,
and withdraw. Spread your legs apart while standing and insert a
finger inside. Now try to contract and relax the muscles of your
tulip.
Fear has made you forget a part of your body. This is the physical
aspect of the problem of reaching an orgasm. You have to reclaim
this part of your body. By moving your pussy, you will produce an
increase in sensitivity, in the blood flow, in moisture.
You should be careful about one thing: men are mad about women with
a prehensile vagina. The only thing you mustn't do is squeeze when
he comes. To have a Ślocked' penis while you come is generally unpleasant.
To the contrary, if you Śbreathe in' with the vagina while he sprays,
you will drive him crazy.
(Repeat the operation before and after meals)
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